Thin people: I believe your intentions are rooted in genuine concern in telling me how to eat, what to eat, how to exercise, how many times a day to eat, and blah, blah, blah!
Newsflash: I know I'm fat! I know what to do about it and when I'm ready, I will do it! I know how to eat, what to eat, how often to eat it, how, why and when to exercise, and so much more!
Please listen to this: what I'd really like is encouragement when I begin a diet plan and silence with a smile when I'm not ready.